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by blarny3 » Fri Feb 11, 2011 8:23 pm
I can testify as I am a psychotherapist for ISAS (incest and sexual abuse survivors), that sexual predators are very good at manipulation, making the child feel wanted and loved and helping them to feel it is 'normal' and actually they are 'very grown up' for participating in this sort of vile abuse.
For the victim, a thinking error ensues with the realisation that you have been used. As we get older we develop our morals and ethics and no we do not always listen to our parents, having an adult tell you, that you are the most special person and different from the rest as you are involved in such an adult act (which lets face it sex is everywhere). This is irresistable to a child and the predator often showers the child with gifts, or manipulates them in other ways such as buying them a pet, which of course is kept at the predators house.
As an adult survivor myself I will tell you these men and women, know the art of manipulating a child for their own needs, and thanks to some people our guilt is compounded by comments like 'the child was a willing participant'. Even if it seems like it in no way can the child be held responsible as the consequences are not fully understood, a paedophile does not do things on the childs terms but their own.
I have been trying not to comment on this thread too much as I realise people are entitled to their own opinion, but as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse myself, which went on for 4 years, I was compelled to ask you think carefully before you pass judgement on the child and their mother, the only person at fault here is the perpertrator. And if you want to know why children appear to be willing participants, its for a whole host of reasons, wanting to be grown up, loved, feel beautiful etc etc. It is not until the child grows into an adult when the past compounds into shame and guilt.
As an online community we have a responsibility to be outraged at this story and a moral obligation to keep our ears open and report anything suspicious to Jagex, who I am sure kinow exactly who to report their findings to.
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